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Friday, December 27, 2013

"I WAS DUMPED OVER EMAIL, BUT NOW I MISS MY EX"

In love, it seems the question is always this:  When someone doesn't want you any more, should you continue to pursue that person?  I've worked with abused kids taken out of their homes by the authorities.  Yet they still wanted to return home to their parents.  Similarly, I've worked with abused or belittled mates, whose relationship may have derailed, but who still want to return to their put-down partner.  What do you think of how I set this guy straight in this week's Dr. Gilda "30-Second Therapist"?

Then there's a woman who misinterprets the congenial professionalism of her doggie's vet as sexual come-ons.  COME ON!!!  What do you think of how I responded to her?

http://www.today.com/health/i-was-dumped-over-email-now-i-miss-my-ex-2D11810727

I love your responses.  Please keep them coming.  And above all else, HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Love,
Dr. Gilda

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, SHOULD OTHERS INTERFERE?

In the Dr. Gilda "30-Second Therapist" this week, here's a problem that seems to be universal:

One man loves his girlfriend—but each time she speaks to her parents, she turns on him.  Another guy lives with his girlfriend, but she refuses to get rid of memories from her marriage.  What is wrong with these pictures?


Both these questions are similar.  When you choose a partner, how many people must enter into that equation?  Of course, everyone has families and friends.  But HOW MUCH influence should outsiders have on your inside relationship?


Holiday season has kept us all so busy.  Remember to take care of yourself while you’re running around!!  You only have one of you, so cherish it!  HAPPY EVERYTHING!!

Love,
Dr. Gilda


Monday, December 9, 2013

SECRETS OF MALE PSYCHOLOGY!



DO YOU UNDERSTAND MALE PSYCHOLOGY?

Since Country Cures(r) launched, I've been meeting with lots of people regarding the new company, doing tons of interviews, and attending lots of Christmas parties.
 
This weekend, I appeared on legendary 770 AM WABC Radio on "The Saturday Café with Laura Smith," discussing how to navigate your relationships with country music-especially using Country Cures(R) technology!  
 
If you haven't yet seen the new website, it's http://www.CountryCures.org.  Especially see the two Country Cures(R) videos for anti-bullying and unemployment woes. 
 
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In my Today Show column this week, one woman wonders about her guy who moved toward togetherness like a tortoise before finally expressing his love.  But suddenly, he darted like a cheetah into his cave!  What do these startling bipolar behaviors of many men mean?
 
Another woman left her marriage after 15 years of being her husband's shadow.  She's interested in someone new, but she never cleared out the stuff that contributed to her shadow dancing. 
 
Here's my take on these two.  WHAT'S YOURS? 
 
http://www.today.com/health/my-boyfriend-said-he-loved-me-then-dumped-me-can-2D11702476
 
Is male psychology that difficult to dissect?
Let me hear your thoughts!


Love,
Dr. Gilda
DrGilda@DrGilda.com
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What's a woman to do when one Prince Charming after another turns out to be a frog? Most women mistakenly chase after the fairy tale, and in their desire to be swept away, they fail to cultivate their own gifts.To succeed in love, women must sharpen their personal power, project it, and attract partners who respect it and reflect it. How a woman treats herself sends the message about how she expects others to treat her. Using real examples, revealing Self-Assessments, her memorable GILDA-GRAMS, and plenty of humor, DR. GILDA demonstrates how to hook, hug, and hold a worthy mate.
Don't Bet On The Prince
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