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Sunday, June 30, 2013

WHAT IS EMOTIONAL PRESENCE?


THE REASONING BEHIND EMOTIONAL 

PRESENCE 


Nothing more needs to be said!




EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY


BE EMOTIONALLY PRESENT AND 

AVAILABLE! 



If you're not, your love will leave you in the dust... LOVE IS 

NOT JUST RECEIVING; IT DEMANDS YOU TO GIVE OF 

YOURSELF--OFTEN INCONVENIENTLY.  



Saturday, June 29, 2013

HEALTHY DISAGREEMENTS



ARGUMENTS CAN BE HEALTHY! 


Unless they're constant, disagreements express honest 

differences (If you don't share your feelings, you have 

nothing.) and passion (If you're apathetic, you're boring.) 





AND ISN'T MAKE-UP SEX HOT?? ;)

Friday, June 28, 2013

FIGHTING TO STAY?? WHY?


WHETHER IT'S A JOB OR A LOVER, 

THE QUESTION IS ALWAYS THE SAME!


YOU'RE IN CHARGE!!

YOU'RE IN CHARGE OF WHO YOU ATTRACT 


HOW THEY TREAT YOU!! 




Hi, Everyone,
This week’s “30-Second Therapist” deals with two entirely different questions that are remarkably the same.  One reader asks why she continues to attract “old and creepy” men.  Another says she's sick of her live-in guy acting like a baby. We alone are in charge!!   CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT HOW:  30-Second Therapist


This Saturday evening, at 7:30 PM, before you go out, hear me on “The Saturday Café with Laura Smith,” on legendary 770 AM WABC Radio, and streaming LIVE on http://WABCradio.com at 7:30 PM EDT for the special “Love Episode.”  Laura’s a terrific lady, and I’m delighted to do her show.


I’ll be in Palm Springs (with temps possibly reaching 120!!) and LA ( a little cooler) for the first 3 weeks in July.  Check my FB, LI, & Twitter for photos and details. (If you’re not already connected to me on these Social Networks, find their addresses on my website: http://www.DrGilda.com.)  People say the California heat is “unlike humid New York, because it’s dry.”  Friends, the oven has dry heat, too, but I wouldn’t put my head in there!!  My trip will be filled with adventure, media appearances, parties, great friends, and perhaps a search for a second residence…  Stay tuned!
Speak to you soon,
Love,
Dr. Gilda

DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) at www.DrGilda.com is the Relationship Expert to the Stars.  She recently conducted Relationship Wellness training for Columbia University Medical Center's medical & dental students. She writes the weekly “30-Second Therapist” for the Today Show website, & she is the Relationship Expert for "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover" on Investigation Discovery. She is a product spokesperson, motivational speaker, Professor Emerita, & author of 15 books, including "Don't Bet on the Prince!" (test question on "Jeopardy") & “How to WIN When Your Mate Cheats” (literary award winner from London Book Festival). DR. GILDA was the therapist in HBO's Emmy Award winner, "Telling Nicholas," featured on Oprah. She was also MTV Online’s “Love Doc” & the TV host for Fox’s “Dr. Gilda Show.” 






http://www.today.com/health/why-are-older-men-only-ones-hitting-me-6C10482722

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

SENSUOUS PASSION MOTIVATES


THE H-E-A-T OF SENSUOUS PASSION 

MOTIVATES!! 



If you're missing it, find it! When that's buzzing, everything 

you do reflects happy success!!



OPRAH STILL MOST POWERFUL!!


ANNUAL FORBES MAGAZINE RICHEST 

CELEBRITY LIST



Madonna was the top earner last year, pocketing $125 million. 

Lady GaGa, Oprah, Jennifer Lopez and Beyonce also made 

the Top 10. Madge topped the money list, but Oprah was 

named MOST POWERFUL!




AMERICA'S VIEWING HABITS

AMERICA'S VIEWING HABITS 



The Kardashians are getting DESTROYED in the TV ratings 

by The NJ Housewives! In Sunday night's numbers, the 

Jersey gals drew 200,000 MORE viewers!!



Tuesday, June 25, 2013

TRUST IN LOVE



LOVE WITHOUT TRUST 

IS A BALLOON 

THAT QUICKLY BURSTS!



DO YOU CARRY BAGGAGE?

WHETHER YOU CARRY BAGGAGE  

OR STEAMER TRUNKS, 

SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE, LOVES YOU, REGARDLESS. 


Embrace that soulmate!




Monday, June 24, 2013

WANT GREAT SEX?

WOMEN, IF YOU WANT TO ENJOY GREAT SEX, DON'T 

TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE YOUR CHILD!




Thursday, June 20, 2013

HOW TO MAKE YOUR LOVE LAST!

THE SECRET TO LASTING RELATIONSHIPS!! 









If someone boasts of a "big, strong ego," BEWARE: it's 

just a cover-up for feelings of insecurity.

KIM'S BULLYING BIRTH

ALL A STAGE FOR KIM! 










Kim Kardashian acted OUT OF CONTROL at The LA hospital where she delivered her daughter. Insider: "Kim and her mother bullied the poor nurses till they broke down in tears." Kim had her makeup and hair people the ENTIRE time she was in the hospital. DON'T YOU WONDER ABOUT THE VALUES THIS BABY WILL BE TAUGHT??

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

MICHAEL JACKSON'S GHOST SPEAKS!






ONLY IN HOLLY-WEIRD!! Katherine Jackson is suing AEG because the firm negligently retained Dr. Conrad Murray. Thus, AEG, like Murray, is responsible for Michael's death.

Except that Michael Jackson’s GHOST said Murray's innocent!

Last week, AEG CEO Randy Philips testified that Lionel Richie’s ex-wife told him Jackson’s ghost visited her, and told her it wasn't Dr. Murray’s fault!! MORE BIZARRE IS THAT THE JUDGE LET THAT "EVIDENCE" STAND ON THE COURT RECORD!!!



BLESS OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM!!

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Saturday, June 15, 2013

REVERSE ROLES FOR UNDERSTANDING!

REVERSE ROLES WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHERS--

BEFORE 

DECIDING ON NEXT ACTIONS. 


Only when we step in others' shoes can we fully feel their 

feelings.




Friday, June 14, 2013

Getting Over Your Honey's Past





Hi, Everyone,

In this week’s “30-Second Therapist” column, one reader resents that her boyfriend has a young ex-wife, while another complains that things have changed in his LDR.  Hopefully, you’re forever growing!!  Otherwise, regressing will keep you down. Your thoughts? 

Click Here:


Have a great Father’s Day & Flag Day!!
Love,
Dr. Gilda

Saturday, June 8, 2013

EVERYONE'S GOT RELATIONSHIP ISSUES!!


RELATIONSHIP ISSUES ABOUND!!

by
Dr. Gilda

Luther Vandross sings, “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with.”  Is that a solution to an unhappy union?  In my Today Show “30-Second Therapist,” a husband refuses to have sex with his wife—BUT the wife’s ex is hot to trot.  Another reader has been with a separated man for 5+ years, but he’s dragging his feet on next steps.  And she’s finally become fed up?  Do you agree with my warnings about splits and separations?  


***

This has been a very busy week for press.  Here are some of my TV, Radio, & Print clips:

1.    Fifteen-year-old Paris Jackson attempted suicide, and I was part of a lively discussion on HuffPost News Live TV, with some of my media friends: http://huff.lv/18RGOrH

2.    Hollywood Life quoted me on what may have driven Paris’ drastic behavior:

3.    The great Jim Bohannon interviewed me again on his radio show: http://www.jimbotalk.net/programhighlights?date=20130606 
Click on at 1:19:55 to end, for the hour, and hear about my latest adventures with my healing work. 

4.    “50 Ways to Leave Your Lover” re-ran on Investigation Discovery: http://investigation.discovery.com/tv-shows/50-ways-to-leave-your-lover/50-ways-to-leave-your-lover-video/member-glued-to-stomach.htm I’ve been asked to appear again on ID’s next edition of “50 Ways…” for Valentine’s Day, 2014.

***

So how was YOUR week?

Love,
Dr. Gilda


Thursday, June 6, 2013

GROWING UP JACKSON


"GROWING UP JACKSON"






WATCH OUR LIVELY DISCUSSION 

Televised on HuffPost Online News LIVE




PARIS JACKSON FELT UNLOVED


Paris Jackson’s Alleged Suicide Attempt: She Felt Unloved — Dr. Gilda

Paris Jackson Family Suicide
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